Married Life in Islam

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"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts.  Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Qur'an 30:21)

In the Qur'an, the marriage relationship is described as one with "tranquility," "love" and "mercy."   Elsewhere in the Qur'an, husband and wife are described as "garments" for each other (2:187).  Garments offer protection, comfort, modesty, and warmth.  Above all, the Qur'an describes that the best garment is the "garment of God-consciousness" (7:26).

Muslims view marriage as the foundation of society and family life.  In a practical aspect, Islamic marriage is thus structured through legally-enforceable rights and duties of both parties.  In an atmosphere of love and respect, these rights and duties provide a framework for the balance of family life and the fulfillment of both partners.

While these are the Islamic ideals, we all need help achieving them sometimes.  See these online articles for further ideas and support for your marriage.

1, 2, 3's of Marital Life - how to work through the initial adjustments of marriage

Communication, Forgiveness, and Understanding Between Couples

Fundamentals of a Happy Marriage, Part I by Shahina Siddiqui

Fundamentals of a Happy Marriage, Part II by Shahina Siddiqui

Marriage in Islam by Shahina Siddiqui

Secrets to Happy, Lasting Islamic Marriages, reprinted from Azizah Magazine

Tips for a Better Husband and Wife Relationship by Ibrahim Bowers

Tips to a Better Marriage by Muntaqima Abdur-Rashid

On intimate relations:

Relations Between Husband and Wife - a delicate look at permissible and forbidden activities between spouses

Human Sexuality and the Shariah

Domestic Violence:

Spouse Abuse in Islam